Affection

1. What are your husbando's love languages?

His primary love language is acts of service. He won’t always say how he feels, but he’ll make me tea just the way I like it, fix what’s broken before I even notice and place a hand on my back to guide me through crowds. He also leans into quality time like sitting beside me in silence, just existing together. Over time, he may grow more open to physical touch, but it takes deep trust.

2. Do you have pet names for each other?

I am the one that uses nicknames the most. I like to call him the classic "baby", "darling", "babe" and "sweetheart". He doesn’t use pet names often, but if he ever does, it’s private and serious. He might call me "my girl" or "precious", especially when I need comfort. When the words come, they carry weight.

3. What are some things you love about him?

As I've said before, I love how calm he is but as much as I love his self-control, I like when he loses it and turns unhinged. His anger is something I really like about him because not only is it rare for him to get angry but also because it is a genuinely terrifying sight.

4. What are some things he loves about you?

He admires my resilience, my capacity to see beauty in broken things and the way I remain calm even when others panic. He loves how I speak to him like he’s human and not like a monster or a villain. My softness doesn’t make me weak in his eyes. It makes me powerful. He’s in awe of how I continue to love despite everything. He also loves that I am unique, that I don't conform to traditional norms or social expectations.

5. What would you write to him in a love letter?

"You don’t need to speak to be heard. I see you in every silent kindness, every pause where others would rush, every moment you choose presence over performance. You are not what the world tried to reduce you to. You are gentle where it matters, exact where it counts. And I will keep loving the parts of you you’re still learning how to hold. Even when you doubt yourself, I won’t."

I’d keep the letter simple but honest. He’d read it more than once, never out loud but he’d tuck it somewhere safe, maybe with the other things he doesn't know how to show he treasures.

6. How might you try to fluster him?

Not with anything overly forward that would just make him shut down. Instead, I’d lean in close during a quiet moment, brush his hand deliberately or whisper something sweet when he least expects it. Compliment him with full sincerity: "You’re beautiful when you’re focused." That’s when he’d look away quickly, jaw tightening but I’d see the faintest color rise to his ears. He wouldn’t know how to respond but he’d remember it all day.

7. What might prompt him to suddenly show you affection?

When I'm quiet for too long. When I look tired or sad, but try to hide it. When I absentmindedly do something kind for him without asking for anything in return. In those moments, he’ll reach out and touch my hand, press his forehead to mine or whisper something almost too soft to hear.

8. Does he express his love more with words or with actions?

Actions, without question. His love is shown through consistency, through the small things: walking on the side closest to the street, always remembering how I take my tea, adjusting his schedule around my needs without ever making it seem like a sacrifice. Words are rare, but when they come, they’re like scripture: meant, precise, unforgettable.

Quality Time

1. Do you share any hobbies/interests?

I'd say not really.

Kai isn't shown explicity to have any hobbies/interests besides shogi also known as Japanese chess which suggests that he loves strategy based games.
Now me, I am 50/50 on strategy games. On one hand it feels nice once you succeed in figuring out on how to get the upper hand on the other player or reach your goal in a strategy based video game but on the other hand, I get frustrated way too easily.

Since Kai has a deep knowledge of quirks and biology, it implies that he has an interest in research and experimentation. It is shown that he is skilled in medical and scientific fields as evidenced by his work with Eri to create quirk-erasing bullets even if he applies them unethically.
I myself am not all that interested in those fields because I prefer computers and the general world of I.T. much more.

2. What would he think about your hobbies/interests?

Even if he doesn’t understand them at first, he’s observant and curious. He won’t interrupt while I talk about them. He’ll just listen, taking mental notes. Over time, he’ll show support in small, practical ways like getting me supplies, clearing time for me or defending my interests if others dismiss them. If I love it, it becomes important to him too.

3. Do you think you might pick up each other's hobbies/interests?

I may try to brush up on my strategy skills but other than that, no we wouldn't.

4. Where would you go on a date?

Somewhere simple I think, like to a cafe. I really love going to them. I enjoy the cozy atmosphere and it's a good place for me to fuel my everlasting coffee addiction lol. We'd have long winded coversations about everything and anything ranging from stupid shit to deep, serious converstions.

5. How often do you make time just for him?

As often as he’ll allow. He never demands it but I notice when he lingers longer in the hallway, when he sighs softly like he wants me near but won’t say it. I carve time even on busy days: a quiet evening together, a shared walk, a moment to sit in stillness and let the world fall away.

6. What is something new you could learn together?

Calligraphy, perhaps. Or a new language. Something that requires patience, precision and repetition, things he excels at. It becomes a shared ritual, quiet and focused. Or maybe cooking recipes from scratch, learning knife skills or fermenting vegetables. Whatever it is, the act of learning together, side by side, not rushed, becomes a kind of love in itself.

What conversations would you most like to have with him?

I’d want to talk about the weight he carries, what he fears, what he regrets, what he dreams about when no one is watching. I’d want to ask, "What does peace look like to you?" or "When did you first feel safe with me?" I’d crave honest conversations about healing, about building a life on something better than survival. And I’d give him space to answer without pressure, just a quiet openness that tells him, I’m here whenever you’re ready.

Physicality and Touch

1. What would it feel like to hug your husbando?

Like tension unwinding in my chest. His hugs are firm, grounding and rare but when they happen, they’re absolute. I can feel his restraint in every movement, like he’s holding back years of things he doesn’t have words for. He holds me like he’s memorizing the shape of peace.

2. What's it like holding hands?

A fun fact about me is that I have really small, skinny hands. Basically akin to a child's hands. So I don't hold Kai's hand entirely and just hold a few of his fingers.

3. How does he like to be kissed?

Gently, deliberately. He’s not someone who craves rushed passion. He wants presence. When I kiss him softly, with both hands at his jaw or fingertips near his collar, he’ll close his eyes and breathe like he's finally found quiet. He returns affection in a focused, reverent way.

4. What do you appreciate about his appearance?

I've said it before but I adore his eyes. Same with his eyelashes. They compliment his eyes perfectly and gold suits them really well.

I do also love his shaggy hair especially when it grows longer during his imprisionment in Tartarus. It feels fluffy whenever I run my hand through it. He looks good with a stubble also.

5. How would he feel about PDA?

Very limited. He’s private by nature and doesn’t like drawing attention. He might tolerate me holding his hand under a table or brushing my fingers against his coat sleeve, but anything more makes him tense. In private though, he’s unguarded, devoted and sincere.

6. What textures do you associate with him?

Clean leather, silk, pressed cotton, surgical gloves, cold porcelain, the warmth of tea cups, the grain of wood furniture. His world is clean, sharp but gradually softening with warm, worn textures introduced through me.

7. Best position for cuddling your husbando?

Me curled against his side, head on his chest, with one of his arms around my shoulder. He likes to feel my weight against him. Proof that I'm real, safe, and close. Full-on spooning is rare, but he may allow it if he’s sick or deeply tired.

8. Where would he most like to touch you?

My hands, first and foremost. He studies them. Touching them feels like trust incarnate. Then my back, between my shoulder blades because it’s grounding. He’s slow to explore, but when he does, every touch is filled with intention.

Relationship Development

1. Have you thought about where you might meet?

Yes. Maybe a hospital, a quiet underground clinic or a hidden recovery ward. I didn’t flinch at his presence and that stayed with him. Or maybe we crossed paths during the aftermath of something bigger. Both tired, both haunted but curious.

2. Who initiates the romance? How does it start?

I do, gently. He’s too guarded to believe anyone could want him. But I'm patient. I show up, again and again, not demanding more than he can give. Eventually, he breaks his silence. It starts with presence and grows into protection.

3. How do you imagine him being during the start of your relationship?

Distant, measured, watching every word. He doesn’t open up easily. But once he realizes I'm not trying to change or fix him, he softens. There’s a quiet shift, he starts sharing things he’s never said aloud. The beginning is slow, full of hesitations but it's also sacred.

4. What would change as your relationship develops?

He becomes more emotionally fluent. His silences lose their sharpness. He starts initiating touch, checking in with me, even showing rare vulnerability. He begins to rely on me a lot more. I become his anchor. In turn, I start to feel truly safe and truly seen.

5. In which ways are you compatible?

We balance each other. Where he is guarded and I'm open. Where he’s hyper-focused and I'm patient. We both value calm, clarity and loyalty. We each have a strong inner world and instead of colliding, they intertwine. I give him warmth, he gives me structure. Together, we create a safe, steady space.

6. How might outsiders react to your relationship?

With confusion, judgment, or even concern. Some won’t understand how someone like me could love someone like him but those who know us both will see the truth: it works, deeply and honestly.

7. When does he realize he loves you?

Not during a grand moment but when I tend to him quietly while he’s sick, or sit beside him without needing him to speak. It hits him suddenly, I didn’t try to save him. I simply stayed. That’s when he knows.

8. What would he risk by being with you?

Everything he built to protect himself. His solitude, his control, his pride. Being with me means letting go of the armor. It’s a terrifying risk for someone who once believed love was dangerous but he takes it.

9. What are your biggest obstacles to overcome?

His emotional walls, my fear of being too much, the world’s perception, his past and my need for emotional connection versus his difficulty expressing it. But none of it is insurmountable because we communicate. I don’t expect perfection. We both choose each other, again and again.

10. What benefit would you add to your husbando's life?

Peace. Not like a forced silence but real, restorative peace. I give him a space where he doesn't have to be on guard. I bring softness without weakness and allow him to rebuild who he is without shame. I don’t flinch. I listen. I see him.

11. How has loving your husbando changed you for the better?

I’ve become more patient, more forgiving. Both of others and myself. Loving Kai has helped me understand that even the most guarded hearts can heal. I’ve learned to find beauty in stillness and power in consistency. I love with my whole heart now. No apologies.

12. Which qualities of his would you like to emulate?

His discipline, his focus, his ability to remain composed under pressure and his refusal to bend to trends or opinions. I admire his ability to walk through fire without losing sight of his purpose even when that purpose shifts.

13. How would you support each other in reaching your goals?

I remind him to rest, to trust others, to let go of things that hurt. He pushes me to believe in my own power, to take my time seriously and to never settle. We each challenge the other gently but firmly.