Birthdays

1. Do you celebrate his birthday?

I haven't yet though I do want to. I am heavily limited with what I can do for his birthday because the one glaring issue I have is that I live with my parents. They aren't strict or anything, I just don't want to be asked what I am doing. That and since I am a full time university student, I don't usually have a lot of time either but I do want to at least try and do something for his birthday. It will be my first time celebrating it too so I'll update this section when that time comes.

2. What would you get him for his birthday?

I do think he would prefer an experience rather than a material gift since he was able to get basically whatever he wanted back then with all the power and money he had.

He is someone who values privacy a lot so I think taking him to an expensive dinner in an upscale, secluded restaurant or a private event at a high-end venue would be an immediate choice for me.

He likes strategic games that challenges his mind as evidenced by his love of shogi so he would also like complex escape rooms or a high-stakes game that tests his skills and intellect.

I think he'd also like having a spa day in one of those modern, immaculately clean places where the attendants barely make themselves seen and you have the place to yourself. Like a salt water bath which is bacteriostatic too.

Whatever it may be, I want it to be big and extravagent because I want to make him feel loved on his special day.

3. Would he like a party, or something more intimate?

Something more intimate for sure!

Kai doesn't trust a lot of people nor does he like a lot of people so he would really like spending his birthday with just the two of us.

4. Are you astrologically compatible?

I am a Capricorn and he is a Pisces. I looked at a couple of zodiac compatibility charts and a lot of them said we are compatible even with one saying we are 88% compatible. So it's safe to say we are.

Vacations

1. What does your ideal holiday with your husbando look like?

Due to his meticulous nature and aversion to chaos, we would go to a quiet, luxurious, and clean location. A private villa in the mountains, an upscale resort by the sea, or even a serene traditional Japanese inn surrounded by nature is something that he would like.

We would share a quiet breakfast while enjoying a view of the surroundings. We would go to a spa next. Given his obsession with cleanliness, he'd enjoy an environment focused on purity and rejuvenation, like a private hot springs or a high-end spa.
We'd also take walks through serene gardens, quiet beaches, or secluded forest trails depending on where we decided to stay and just enjoying the nature.
In the evenings we would have some quiet coversations, sharing our deep-seated thoughts while laying together.
Overall, it would be a very serene vacation.

2. Does he prefer the beach or the mountains?

He would prefer the mountains over the beach since he likes more quiet, controlled environments. Kai would definitely enjoy the cool, crisp air of the mountains.

3. What is his preferred method of travel? (e.g. train, plane, boat)

His preferred method of travel would be private travel, in a private car or plane. If private travel isn't an option then he would opt for first class.

4. Would he act different while on vacation?

Nah, he would act the same as always. Him and his bitchass attitude <3

Valentine's Day

1. How would you spend Valentine's Day with him?

I'm pretty indifferent about celebrating holidays in general so I imagine we wouldn't do much. We'd probably go to a restaurant and then buy some chocolate and spend the rest of our Valentine's Day watching movies.

2. How does he feel about the holiday? Is he cynical, supportive, etc.?

He's indifferent about it as well though he would make an effort to at least do something for the holiday.

Spooky Season

1. What would his costume be on Halloween?

I think it would be funny if he dressed as a plague doctor. Would be a nice callback to the Shie Hassaikai.

2. Does he prefer tricks or treats?

It's hard to pick just one cause I think he would prefer both. He does like sweets and he likes using tricks against me just to get a reaction out of me cause I'm pretty difficult to scare.

3. What is his favourite type of candy?

He likes peppermints, dark chocolate squares and hard candies because they aren't overly messy and sticky.

4. How would he feel about scary movies?

I feel like he would like them. He's pretty stone-faced so he wouldn't be scared of them if we decided to watch them. Me though, I don't get scared either but they would definitely manifest into my nightmares.

Christmas

1. How would he feel about the holiday season?

Kai is a bit difficult to gauge in terms of emotion so it's hard to tell how he feels about something or what he's thinking. As usual, I think he would just be indifferent to it.

2. What Christmastime tradition is his favourite?

He'd enjoy listening to some soft holiday music while staying indoors for a quiet evening of reflection.

3. Is he better about giving gifts or receiving them?

He's better about giving gifts because he's used to giving them to me back when he was in power.

4. If he didn't like a gift, would he tell you, or would he try to like it because he loves you?

He would tell me straight up. He's blunt and doesn't sugarcoat anything. It would hurt but it's better than being lied to in my opinion.

5. What kind of gift would you want to receive from him?

Something tangible that I can touch and hold whenever I miss him. I don't have high standards when it comes to love so he can just buy me a necklace, keychain, stuffed animal anything of that sort and I'd be happy. He's pretty good at surprising me with things I never expected to get.

New Year's

1. Would he have any trouble staying up late?

He wouldn't have any trouble staying up late because he's used to doing it when he had to pull all-nighters to finish his work.

2. What is your husbando doing when the date rolls over?

Celebrating my birthday lol because fun fact about me is that I was born on New Year's.

3. Does he continue partying into the next day, or does he go back to "normal?"

He goes back to normal. He isn't exactly a party animal.

Anniversaries

1. When is your anniversary? How long have you been together?

We've been dating since February 2nd, 2024.

2. What would he do to celebrate your anniversary?

He would take me somewhere private and tranquil, having planned the celebration far in advance to ensure everything goes smoothly, focusing on everything I like since he doesn't like spontaneity.
Kai isn’t the most openly emotional person, so his way of showing affection would be through his actions rather than words. However, on a day like this, he would open up just a smidge to tell me how much I mean to him.
Since he's not the overly romantic type, he'd express his love through subtle gestures. His quiet love and care would speak volumes.

3. How long do you think you will be together?

It's hard to say honestly. With how little content there is of him due to his unpopularity combined with the fact that he is fictional makes it hard to maintain a relationship with him. Not that I regret being in a relationship with him of course, I love him with all my heart otherwise I wouldn't have spent so much time creating this shrine.
But I do think we'd be together for a long time. I would be genuinely devastated if I lost feelings towards Kai because he's my first fictional relationship that I took seriously. Looking back on this shrine would just feel painful cause I'd be reminded of all the time, energy, love and research I put into this website. That said I am determined to keep our relationship going for a long time.

First Meetings

1. When did you discover your husbando?

I met Kai sometime in 2021.

Me, my mother and my sister were watching the anime since we caught wind of it due to it's rising popularity. I distinctly remember us watching the anime on one of our phones on the living room table before we switched to using a computer. Teenage me had no idea just how infatuated I would be with him <3

2. What was your first impression of him?

My first impression of him was that he was really beautiful. Love him or hate him, you can't deny that he is absolutely killing it in the looks department. Besides that I thought he was cool and I remember liking his personality. Safe to say I was immediately sold.

3. What made him stand out from others?

What made him stand out to me was how calm he is. Like eerily calm. It's terrifying considering how fast he can become unhinged when someone so much as touch him but when that doesn't happen, he's calm and collected and it's able to instill some uneasiness in me.

4. When did your romantic longing begin?

It started 3 years after I was introduced to him. It wasn't immediate and it took a while for me to come to terms with my feelings towards him.

5. At the time, would you have guessed how important he'd be to your life?

I'd say yes and no.

I did develop a crush on him when I first met him but it was more on a surface level since at the time I was in love with a different character so I didn't really explore those feelings. I was really obsessed with My Hero Academia and I still like it to this day. I didn't see that obsession ending anytime soon so there would be a chance where I could come back to Kai and something would have sparked.